"HOW DO I KNOW IF SHE IS ATTRACTED TO ME ON A DATE?"

·               This a great question, and knowing the answer will make going in for that kiss become her idea and not yours. That's right, guys -- the first kiss has to be her idea. She has to want it and desire it, and learning what her body language is saying is the key to the first kiss and knowing if she is attracted to you.

·               When you are out on a date, sit across from her at a table, or if you are about to sit in a booth, let her sit down first and see where she invites you to sit. Some women will invite you to sit right down next to them in the booth and some will not. If she invites you to sit down next to her, she is telling you that she has an initial attraction to you.

·              "Be a listener, not a talker !!! 

                                let me say it again "Be a listener, and not a talker !" Got it, ok!

·              The first step to making the date a true success is to listen to what she is saying. Pay attention to the details, ( Eye contact guys not where you would love to look at the whole time!) react to what she has to say. That does not mean that you can't share a story or two about yourself, but the best dates are the ones where you're in a listening and reacting mode rather than a talking and bragging mode.

·              Of course, she wants to hear about who you are and what you are all about. She does not want to hear you brag about how much money you have or how successful you are. She also does not want to know about your negative dating history.

·             She wants to know about what you have learned in life to this point.                               

·             She wants to see how positive a person you are, and she wants to imagine being able to hang out with you.

·             There is a lot to learn about a first date. I really suggest you book one hour of phone time with me to go over all of this. So if you desire to be the guy who women want, then email me right now and let's book that hour.

                                                                                                      Just be patient!