1.Posted by Gina Fri, Nov 9, 2007, 11:43 am PST
I agree with this post. It is true that if a woman in attracted to you, subconsciensce she will do those little gestures and don't forget, she will be smilin! I usually don't touch men too much on the first date because I am shy, but if we were close together I would try to get a little touchy if I was attracted. If i am not attracted to someone I always want to keep my distance as far away as possible. I will probably give one word answers to their questions, or do a half smile. I would recommend men on a first date to not be so aggressive-but if the feeling is there go in for a kissy!
2.Posted by Epyon Sat, Nov 10, 2007, 3:35 pm PST
Lol wow sounds like something out of a porno... im going to look out for these cues.
3.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Sun, Nov 11, 2007, 8:41 pm PST
"When she is speaking, she will touch her leg or her face, imagining it was you who was touching her." Guys, don't get any ideas. That is hardly ever the case, if ever. Only if you are on a date with a Nymphomaniac, will your date ever be thinking that. Other than that, this article is pretty accurate.
4.Posted by Phillip Sun, Nov 11, 2007, 10:23 pm PST
LOl. yes a woman will make some of these clues. The more of these clues she is making at one time the better for the guy, now whether unconscious or conscious about it its not a she will not do this and she will do this and these are the reasons. She may be playing with her hair, smiling, and leaning in... meaning she likes you and prolly maybe the conversation your having... and she may be thinking naughty things but I wouldn't assume that.
5.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 1:11 am PST
You have much on target ...the dates Ive been on that were interesting I didnt go to the bathroom or look elsewhere at all . However as much as us women may toss our hair or touch our arms/legs, etc IT is NOT due to us mentally envisioning ourselves being intimate with that man at that moment. It just means we are comfortable and are opening up as we would relax around our girlfriends. UNLESS the woman and it happens is just super confident all the time then she can show all the given signs and really not be interested at all...lol...
6.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 2:15 am PST
She will play with her hair or lick her lips before she moves towards you When she is speaking she is touch her leg or face imagining it was you Duh definitely a Nymphomaniac Besides who writes this [profane] advice anyway? Load of BS.
7.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 9:55 am PST
Sorry, but it's stupid to think that a girl has to be "totally fixated on you" in order to be liking you. Maybe it just means that she is obsessed with you or that you are the first guy that has talked to her in a long time. If I look at my watch, it's because this is a nervous habit of mine. If I look around the room, it's because I like to see what people are wearing and how they interact with each other. If I go to the bathroom, it's because I can probably stand to miss a second of a date - no matter how great a guy is - in order not to pee in my pants. I have grown out of the belief that another person is so important that I should miss out on life outside of that person. The "signs of attraction" above are more like a list of some guy's girl fantasy rather than something of actual merit. Where are the resources?
8.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 10:18 am PST
Oh, please. "Touching leg or face" thing as well as the "licking the lips to create a sexual feeling inside her"... c'mon, who the heck is the author going out with? Everyone is different, but most women are not that forward with the lip licking, but good for you if you get one, I guess. And guys, just because a woman touches her own leg or face does not in anyway mean that she's imagining it's you touching her. But i whole-heartedly agree with the first 3 as well as the "casual touch".
9.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 10:52 am PST
I agree that men shouldn,t brag about their career and fortune. On the other hand women do like to hear about their position and annual income just to see if this man is worth the effort. Women who are involved do compete with their girlfriends when it comes to social status, like: "My Harry just got a new SUV, and a mortgage for this mansion in the country".
10.Posted by Terri Mon, Nov 12, 2007, 4:18 pm PST
I think if your date is laughing, smiling and engaged in conversation w/ good eye contact it is a good indication of attraction. I find when I like someone, I will also casually touch an arm or a shoulder while making a point-some of the time. On the other hand there are some things I unconciously do when I am not interested in someone- I cross my arms in front of me and/or if they lean in to kiss me I lean away. Good article, but also look for signs that she doesn't want the kiss. Doesn't mean it will never happen, but that she is not ready yet. If you are not sure, better to give a peck on the cheek than to assume too much.
11.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 13, 2007, 12:46 pm PST
If these "cues" are true, I have apparently developed an apparently profane reaction to my computer monitor. I have just caught myself, in the last 2 minutes alone, both licking my lips and touching both my leg and my face. Granted, it could because my lips are chapped and I'm thirsty, and it could be that I was brushing away crumbs and scratching an itch, but I guess I should admit to myself, I lust for my Hanns. In all seriousness, I wouldn't take too many of the cues too much to heart. I have done all the 'uh-ohs' when out with someone I was attracted to and done the 'oh-yeahs' to people I wasn't. They may clue you in that she doesn't think you're a complete loser, but by no means do they imply she's pining for your caress. About the only thing, speaking for myself, that would provide a sure clue would be how closely I stand to you while we say goodnight (or anything for that matter). If I come into your space with my entire being- as opposed to a touch- pucker up.
12.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Wed, Nov 14, 2007, 1:58 pm PST
I believe in everything I have read....Mostly becaues I am a woman...and for you guys that kep on writing all the stuff about this geing a lot of bull....well maybe shes just not into you becaues you are probubly to much into yourself than her.... Your a loser!
13.Posted by John Thu, Nov 15, 2007, 3:06 am PST
I agree with this post, keep this in mind it might come in handy,
14.Posted by David Sat, Nov 17, 2007, 6:18 am PST
well i think every women has there way in doing things and there all not the same i think if a date is going good and she reachs out to touch your hand or arm and she maybe in to you other then that she maybe just shy and she really dont know what to do or how to ack she mabe thinking in her head does he like me do i look ok other then that i think touching her face and leg is b/s
15.Posted by George Sat, Nov 17, 2007, 9:06 am PST
i am not too sure about all the body language issues that are brought up. and as for sitting next to your date. no way!!! Think about it how do you talk to her? You both have to sit sideways to look at each other. Across the table is better. Then you can see each other and be more comfortable. Just wondering where you got your information? And if from people who have dated it seems to me someone is not being real.
16.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:33 pm PST
this is wackkk..
17.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:35 pm PST
oh yeah like I would totally be doing that. WHATEVER.
18.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:36 pm PST
I think this is ridiculous. I woman does not lick her lips and twirl her hair. A tramp or little girl may. This is VERY OFFENSIVE to a very attractive and successful woman. I think I am going to go throw up now!! Gentlemen, this advice is not worth the computer screen it was written on.19.Posted by Kimu Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:36 pm PST
ummm i have adhd... so just cause i'm looking around the room doesn't mean i'm not into you. i could just say so... and what if i do actually have to go to the bathroom? and sometimes you have to look at your watch. staring at it is rude, though... then that really does mean you're bored and not nto that person or the situation
20.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:36 pm PST
what if she takes items of clothing off? do you think that means she likes me?????
21.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:36 pm PST
what does it mean when she blows her nose repeatedly and picks at her forearm? At a romantic dinner. how about when she crosses her eyes and then leaves one inset while the other goes east, like a chameleon? is a woman flirting when she feigns a twisted ankle and then pushes you away, gentle but firm, when you reach to help. all of this, and more, has happened to me. i'm confused, but still raring to go. give me a chance ladies.
22.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:37 pm PST
I think David must have been a woman in his past life! Check on all counts! I know for a fact I have done all those things in a single night! RIGHT ON!
23.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:38 pm PST
"email me right now and let's book that hour," he says. what a shameless plug.
24.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:38 pm PST
Wow he knows women well!!
25.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:38 pm PST
errr sorry but this article is so not true.. those signs sound more like a slut to me.. and not going to the restroom? i think we would like to go just to check if our face look alright or if we need more make up etc.. if we really are attracted to the men.
26.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:38 pm PST
I dont agree with this... I guess it could be true if someone is inhumanly MESMERIZED by the person they are on a date with, but i have never done any of these things on any date i have been on rather i was interested in my date or not.
27.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:38 pm PST
This guy is an unqualified nutjob spewing the most twisted wannabe psychobabble slash common sense. I would get more tips on how to deal with women by watching the Flintstones. Besides- why would we ask a GUY- what a woman wants? Come on, people.
28.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:39 pm PST
This is the best brief article on the subject I have seen yet, and believe me I have read a lot on this subject. For the most I have come to the exact same conclusions on my own. Congrats to Mr. Wygant he knows what he talking about. And for all you guys out there who need help with women bookmark this page and treat it like a religion.
29.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:39 pm PST
GAH! You aren't supposed to tell our secrets.
30.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:39 pm PST
not so realistic at all imo
31.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:39 pm PST
imagining you are touching me? ....nope. im just worried i have some food left on my face.
32.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:40 pm PST
Yes some of this is true, but not all of it. Some of these things are done on a more figity basis rather than a interest in another person.
33.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:40 pm PST
What a load of garbage, no woman is thinking about some bloke touching her or getting ready for sexual activity on a first date. Has this guy ever spoken to a woman?
34.Posted byA Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:40 pm PST
They should also add the most important way to get women to like you. BE GOOD LOOKING!
35.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:40 pm PST
Lol. This "advice" is so lame. Don't you think most women have already read this sh*t in Cosmo and already know what types of body language not to telegraph so as to confuse her date? Get a grip, so-called Dating Tipster.
36.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:41 pm PST
Not too bad, but I am not going with the touching her own leg or face and pretending it is you. Even on a subconscious level that isn't happening in my moves or thoughts. That is wishful thinking on the guy's part IMO.
37.Posted by Alex Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:41 pm PST
Good
38.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:41 pm PST
Also I almost never sit directly next to the person I am attracted to. I prefer them to sit across from me as I prefer to look at them and be able to speak to them easier that way while maintaining eye contact which is hard to do crapped up in a booth next to the person. Also I have never ever been in conversation with a person on a first date and envisioned them caressing my face and thighs as they spoke about their lives and other get to know you details no matter how attracted I was to them.
39.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:41 pm PST
40.Posted by Alex Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:42 pm PThis is the dumbest thing YAHOO has ever allowed to be posted.
Good Stuff man....
41.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:42 pm PST
Guys - if you are out on a first meeting with a woman you've met on a Web site of any kind - please DO NOT ask the woman how many other people she's met on the Web site and how her 'luck' has been on that site. That is none of your business, and it makes the woman feel extremely uncomfortable - whether you are her first date or her 100th. I don't ask that question on my first date, and I don't expect it to be asked of me.
42.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:42 pm PST
This article is a load of b.s. The body language cues are way off. Excuse me if I have to use the bathroom or I want to know what time it is. Any guy who listens to this advice needs help and the guy who wrote this is a moron. If a woman licks her lips she is not creating a sexual feeling inside myself. Did it ever occur to you that her lips might be dry? You think that when a woman touches her face or her leg that means that she is envisioning you touching her? What a joke! The person who wrote this is a misguided pervert who needs a reality check.
43.Posted by Jason Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:42 pm PST
Usually, I'm just happy if they don't pretend to go to the lady's room and call a cab instead. I hate it when that happens. The first time that happened, I sat there like an idiot for almost an hour. I don't condone violence against women, but I can understand it. Maybe I shouldn't talke about my porn addiction so much.
44.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:42 pm PST
All the people saying that they agree with the post work for YAHOO.
45.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:43 pm PST
Your articles always make the best blog fodder when I'm in the mood to point out the idiots in the world.
46.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:43 pm PST
Hell, if she is playing with her hair and licking her lips, I'm taking her straight home and finishing the deal!
47.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:43 pm PST
hahaha " When she is speaking, she will touch her leg or her face, imagining it was you who was touching her." that is so not true obviously this guy daydreams a lot! or is just messing around, but you cannot actually be serious about that!
48.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:43 pm PST
What absolute crap ! why does,nt a woman just plain say she,s attracted to you instead of all this other bull that way you don't have to be second guessing all the time.
49.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:43 pm PST
What absolute crap ! why does,nt a woman just plain say she,s attracted to you instead of all this other bull that way you don't have to be second guessing all the time.
50.Posted by A Yahoo! Contributor Tue, Nov 20, 2007, 3:44 pm PST
Nice job spelling special "sepcial" Yahoo. Maybe next time you'll proof your work or manage to write something that isn't total bs.